I was in a situationship for almost three years.Three years of not dating someone, but still planning weekends together. Still texting daily. Still knowing exactly how they like their eggs. Still wondering if this was finally the moment they’d choose me… properly. They never did. And the wild part? That’s not even the only time […]
This week, I’m not unpacking a deep thought or having a quiet existential crisis. Instead, I’m telling a story. One of those “this could only happen to me” moments that has imprinted itself onto the very fabric of my soul. Let’s rewind. It was a Thursday night. A “friend” had invited me over to “hang […]
Father’s Day this year hits me with a mix of emotions. This morning, scrolling Instagram, my feed was full of gay dads, and honestly? It made me so happy. Whether it’s couples who’ve adopted, dads who’ve gone through surrogacy, gay men who’ve donated to lesbian couples, or men who lived a past life as a […]
I want the real thing.The big love.The “talk about nothing for hours, know each other’s coffee order, kiss me on the forehead when I’m overthinking” kind of love. But here’s the problem:I’m amazing at the beginning.Flirty. Curious. Engaged. I can give great text.I know how to start something, I just never seem to follow it […]
Every year, on the last Friday in August, Australians unite in purple, not for fashion, but for a cause. Wear It Purple Day is all about fostering safe, supportive, and inclusive environments for LGBTQIA+ young people. It’s a visual and vocal reminder that they are seen, valued, and not alone. AFL and a Hyper-Masculine Hangover […]
Sydney is out to be seen.Melbourne is out to see what happens. A night out in Sydney is a production.There’s a fresh fade, a coordinated look, someone in head-to-toe Dion Lee pretending it’s “just something I threw on.” We arrive in curated cliques, do the rounds, and sip our drinks with good posture, just in […]
Sydney’s not a city, it’s a group chat with 2 degrees of separation and too many shared stories. You meet someone at a party and within 5 minutes, someone else is like, “Oh! Didn’t he hook up with your ex’s housemate’s situationship?”And the answer is probably yes. The overlap is wild.You go on one date […]
Growing up in Orange, my family had a nightly ritual. At 7pm sharp, the TV flicked on, and without fail we were transported to Summer Bay. Home & Away wasn’t just a show, it was a staple, a kind of family glue. Among the familiar faces, Irene always stood out. She wasn’t just a character; […]
It’s a strange thing, seeing your friends grieve.Not quietly. Not politely. But in real time, faces crumpling, bodies shaking, holding each other because words aren’t enough. Usually time together is fun, chaotic.Most of my memories live in the corners of dancefloors or for some reason, someones kitchen. There’s glitter and noise in the way I […]
This is a follow-up to an Instagram post I shared back in March 2021. A reflection on one of the hardest points in my life, and everything that’s shifted since. You can view the post here: https://www.instagram.com/p/CMfuy96Hl3I/?igsh=MThyMmpiMmkwdXNvYw== Back then, I was deep in anxiety, or at least, that’s what I thought.Every day felt like I […]
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