There was a time in my life where I lived in a throuple.Two guys who had been together forever, or at least it felt like it. They had the history, the rhythm, the shorthand. And then there was me, the third. The newest piece of the puzzle. And for a while, it worked.We cooked together. […]

I was in a situationship for almost three years.Three years of not dating someone, but still planning weekends together. Still texting daily. Still knowing exactly how they like their eggs. Still wondering if this was finally the moment they’d choose me… properly. They never did. And the wild part? That’s not even the only time […]

This week, I’m not unpacking a deep thought or having a quiet existential crisis. Instead, I’m telling a story. One of those “this could only happen to me” moments that has imprinted itself onto the very fabric of my soul. Let’s rewind. It was a Thursday night. A “friend” had invited me over to “hang […]

I want the real thing.The big love.The “talk about nothing for hours, know each other’s coffee order, kiss me on the forehead when I’m overthinking” kind of love. But here’s the problem:I’m amazing at the beginning.Flirty. Curious. Engaged. I can give great text.I know how to start something, I just never seem to follow it […]